Hellluuurrrr *in my strangest Madea's voice*
How y'all doing?
You know Moby is back when you get a Dear Moby series in a week *covers face*. Feels so good to be back.
What's crackalacking?
MY MOOD RIGHT NOW? Mixed emotions.
I made a major life decision yesterday... nope I executed a major life changing decision yesterday. I should be happy about it but I made the decision months ago but I executed it 9 days earlier than I should have and I feel down tintin ni (small)... but I am happy I made the decision. I can see lots of people waiting to hear the gist... ntorrr. The decoders are trying to decode the gist... na lie. I am not telling anyborri... hehe.
Okay..... what do I have today?
I saw this picture while I was away and I was very angry at first until I decided to drink very cold water and use wisdom.
The message reads "Stop giving men money...A man is not a man if he has to KEEP ASKING a woman for money."
Okay maybe the designer of the message was a lil bit harsh but here's my opinion.
I have no problem giving my man money. Its no big deal. I would do it a million times over if I have to. I mean we are supposed to be a team right?. I cover your shame, you cover mine.
I heard a story of a man that didn't have a job for close to 2 years but no one in the man's or woman's family knew cos the woman would send money on behalf of the guy to them... buy stuff in the house... Basically covered the man's shame till he got a job *that's my kinda woman...she's the baddest*
But the word KEEP ASKING is what I have a problem with.
When I was staying with my mum, there was this neighbor of ours that their case was out of this world. The wife was doing about three jobs... She worked in a bakery, she was a tailor and she was working another job. But her husband was lazy AF. He would wake up, stretch his leg around the neighborhood (he does that so that he wouldn't be there when the wife is setting the dinning table for breakfast). He comes back expecting breakfast (and he gets it...thanks to wifey). When she's going out, she drops money for him...Then he sleeps all day... wakes up and goes to the viewing centre to watch football and drink with the cash wifey dropped.
Now my point is its okay for a woman to give money to her man but if he keeps asking without showing any effort of trying to make money then he stops being the man... the woman is already the man if she has to take care of the house. I tell people 'atleast show that you're trying.... fake it till you make it". Some men just irritate me... they are lazy and they are proud of it. They gossip like women, gist like women and do nothing all day. I have plenty of them in my estate. I didn't mention names o *picks up slippers incase I need to run*
That's my own one piece... just my own thought.
I want to read your thought.
Should a man collect money from his woman and does that make him any less of a man?
Let's talk.